Dear Athena, I want to get my wife to do anal with me, but she's not into it. You have to remember that. Week 2, Eating for Health and Fitness. Don't ask, just flip her over like you're going to do doggy and do it. As to actual anal, don't expect too much from it in terms of feeling better. My girl craves it, but she must perform her ablutions first which entails using an enema.
Reassure her that this time would be different, and — this is important! View All videos art shows galleries theater shows. Totally agree with wjh55, I love 1 seeing anal where the woman is being given time to take the cock and start enjoying it, and 2 seeing her face showing rather HONEST expressions of anal for a change. The sphincter instinctually tenses up if its owner is uncomfortable or nervous, which makes penetration more difficult for you and potentially more painful for her. MrShmoove 6 years ago.
I too was obsessed with it and my wife totally refused, until one day we were fooling around when she was on her period and she just said "urgh, just stick it in my ass! How is your sex life in general? Here OP was not trying to get his wife to ask for it, but to let him try it. And I mean lots. You have to be more careful, and if you thrust deep there is like no pressure on your head. Don't be so selffish. Accomplishing goals is not success.