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Your swinging experience greatly depends on the perceptions you have regarding the experiences you hope to enjoy while a part of the lifestyle. What initially seems like a big turn on, can manifest into other feelings, but there are ways that you can Read More. Views Read Edit View history. The Swinging lifestyle, also known as partner swapping has become quite popular in last decade. Wife Swapping Wife swapping is not a new concept.
Today, couple swapping has become popular among the swinging lifestyle and is openly accepted by most couples. A key party is a form of swinger party, in which male partners place their car or house keys into a common bowl or bag on arriving. Some believe sexual attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple. Many cite an increased quality, quantity, and frequency of sex.
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